Tenet of Leadership: Listen More Than You Speak

“Listening is not silence — it’s love that hears before it speaks.”

Principle

Listening is love in action. It demonstrates humility, respect, and genuine care for others. You have two ears and one mouth—use them accordingly. Listening first is not a weakness; it is a sign of wisdom. It is one of the rarest and most potent forms of respect you can offer.

Scripture Foundation

“So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath”.
— James 1:19

Application

True leaders understand that communication begins with listening. Every conversation is an opportunity to learn, to discern, and to strengthen relationships. A listening leader creates trust and unity—two essential pillars of godly influence.

When we listen before speaking, we mirror the heart of Christ: patient, understanding, and slow to anger. This posture allows us to lead not with impulse, but with insight and compassion.

Leadership Reflection

James 1:19 describes a servant-hearted, disciplined, and spiritually mature leader —someone who listens first, speaks wisely, and manages emotions with grace. This kind of leadership reflects the example of Jesus and inspires others to follow with confidence and respect.

Challenge for the Week

Pause before you respond. Ask yourself: Am I listening to understand, or am I just waiting to speak? Seek to listen with the intent to love, not to reply.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,
Teach me to listen as You do, with patience, compassion, and understanding.
Quiet my heart when I am quick to speak or slow to hear. Help me discern the needs behind others’ words and respond with wisdom and grace. May my listening reflect the heart of Christ, bringing peace where there is conflict and light where there is confusion. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.